There are so many platforms and outlets available today that promise “real love” and claim to make it easy to get into a relationship. That last part might be true – it’s not necessarily difficult to start a relationship with someone. However, it’s how to manifest the relationship you want and deserve that’s often the hard part.
Thankfully, through manifestation techniques, you can find that relationship. You can find that person that makes you feel like they were made for you and your values.
That doesn’t necessarily mean you can use visualization and mindfulness to find a partner tomorrow. By using mindfulness and other techniques, you’ll also get more in touch with your needs and desires, so you can be direct and clear in communicating what you want and need from a partner.
Manifesting the relationship you want and deserve can be a wonderful way to meet your perfect partner, or bolster your existing relationship if you feel like your needs aren’t being met.
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How to Manifest True Love
Being able to manifest love sounds a bit like a fairytale, but it doesn’t have to be. While it’s important to keep your expectations realistic, you can find what you’re looking for if you take your manifestation techniques seriously and you’re able to communicate what you want.
One of the biggest challenges people face when they try to manifest a relationship and love is overcoming mental barriers. For example, you might want a relationship and to fall in love with a wonderful person. But, if you secretly believe that you don’t deserve it or aren’t good enough for that kind of relationship, it’s going to set you back from getting what you want. Some of the best tips on how to manifest love include:
- Deciding what your ideal relationship looks like;
- Visualizing that relationship;
- Acting as though that dream person is already out there for you;
- Allowing love into your life without attachment.
Establish Rituals or Routines
If you’re having difficulty getting started with manifesting a relationship or mastering how to manifest love, consider using daily rituals to improve your mindfulness and visualization efforts. Some people rely on rituals for good luck, but they can actually help to reduce anxiety, increase your confidence, and make it easier to practice mindfulness. Rituals can also support positive outcomes. As you visualize the type of relationship you want, consider saying something to yourself each day, like “The person of my dreams is just around the corner.”
Navigate Relationship Troubles
Just because you’re already in a relationship doesn’t necessarily mean it’s the partnership you want for yourself. Maybe you’re not single, but you don’t feel like you deserve the negativity you feel in your current relationship.
Thankfully, in many cases, it’s not too late to change things and manifest greatness in your partnership. Maybe you find yourself daydreaming or wishing things were better, or that your partner would meet your emotional needs. You can turn those thoughts into moments of mindfulness. The more mindful you are, the easier it will be to experience clarity about what you want and need. When you’re confident in those needs, you can be more direct with your communication.
Often, relationships struggle because of a breakdown in communication. If you want to navigate your relationship troubles while fostering a healthier, happier partnership, don’t beat around the bush when it comes to your needs, wants, and desires. Your partner can’t change anything if you aren’t clear.
Speaking those needs and wants out loud, especially after visualizing them for some time, can make it easier for them to become your relationship reality.
Recognize Harmful Patterns
It’s also important to come up with effective solutions to recurring problems. Every couple argues, but if your disagreements tend to look the same each time, visualize what you can do to change those situations, and talk to your partner about having healthy arguments in the future.
Believe it or not, arguing can actually end up strengthening your relationship when it’s done the right way. Remember you’re on the same team, be direct with your communication efforts, and keep visualizing the type of relationship you want so you can work with your partner to make it a reality.
Be Happy With Yourself
We touched on it above, but if you truly don’t believe you deserve a relationship or that someone great would never want to be with you, it might not be the right time to throw yourself into the world of dating.
First and foremost, it’s essential to learn to be happy and content with yourself. That includes understanding your self-worth and value. You might be someone who has struggled with self-esteem issues your entire life. Chances are, there’s a reason for that. Maybe it stems from childhood or your teenage years. Or, maybe you were in a negative relationship that caused your confidence to plummet. Whatever the case, getting to the root cause of those issues and working through them will put you in a better state of mind as you seek out a new relationship.
Know Yourself and Your Love Languages
It’s also important to know your preferences. Again, almost anyone can find a relationship. That doesn’t mean it will be a good one. Understanding things like your love language and what you want or expect from someone can help you fine-tune your manifestations. For example, the five love languages are:
- Speaking loving words;
- Physical touch;
- Being helpful;
- Giving gifts;
- Giving your time.
Do you have an idea of what your language is? What makes you feel the most loved and valued? When you know, you can communicate that to a potential partner, and you can ask about their own love language so you can display your affections appropriately.
For now, consider focusing on yourself and your own well-being. If you aren’t happy with yourself for any reason, you’re not going to be able to manifest the relationship you deserve. In fact, if you don’t feel good about yourself, you’re more likely to continue to attract people who make you feel worse, or who cause you to feel “stuck” in life.
Your ideal relationship is out there. Use some of these ideas to bring that person into your world, and recognize that you deserve greatness.
About the Author: Ainsley Lawrence is a writer who loves to talk about good health, balanced life, and better living through technology. She is frequently lost in a good book.